I’ll be a guest on the Creating a Family radio show Wednesday Feb. 17, 2010 from noon-1 p.m. Eastern Time ( 9-10 a.m. Pacific).

I’ll be discussing how to choose an adoption agency with host Dawn Davenport, and the other guest, Elizabeth Falker (author of The Ultimate Insider’s Guide to Adoption). We’ll be covering agencies for both domestic and international adoption.

Hope you’ll tune in to listen live. If you can’t catch the live show, you can listen to the podcast anytime at

http://www.creatingafamily.org/radioshow.html

Dawn has lots of interesting broadcasts on adoption- and infertility-related topics — check them out!

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The numbers are in: International adoptions for fiscal year 2009 (10-1-08 – 9-30-09) dipped 27 percent from 2008, to 12,753.

Intercountry adoptions peaked in 2004, with 22,884 children from other countries finding homes with U.S. families.

The top 10 countries from which U.S. families adopted in fiscal year 2009 were:

  1. China – 3001
  2. Ethiopia – 2277
  3. Russia – 1586
  4. South Korea – 1080
  5. Guatemala – 756
  6. Ukraine – 610
  7. Vietnam – 481
  8. Haiti – 330
  9. India – 297
  10. Kazakhstan – 295

In an Associated Press article, David Crary writes:

China has been steadily cutting back the numbers of healthy, well-adjusted orphans being made available for adoptions; a majority of Chinese children now available to U.S. adoptive families have special physical or emotional needs.

Adoptions from Guatemala (the #1 country in 2008) and Vietnam (#6 in 2008) have dropped significantly because adoptions from those countries have been plagued by corruption, and adoptions from those countries have been shut down indefinitely.

Domestic adoptions of newborns are also decreasing. Because of our current economic recession, many adoption agencies mistakenly believed more women in crisis pregnancies would decide to place their unborn babies for adoption.

According to a New York Times article by Susan Dominus, that hasn’t happened.

Dawn Smith-Pliner, founder of Vermont-based Friends in Adoption, told the Times that pregnant women are instead thinking:

“…if the achievable goal, a half-decent job, isn’t an option to work toward, then I might as well keep the baby — that’s tangible.”

Single motherhood continues to gain societal acceptance, and women who are considering placing a child for adoption may be foregoing traditional adoption agencies in favor of researching and networking with prospective adoptive parents online.

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I have limited 2-packs of my books, The Adoption Decision and The Adoption Network available for $15 (this price includes U.S. shipping).

This is a 30 percent discount off the lowest price Amazon is offering, plus your books will be autographed by the author (me). You can’t get that from Amazon!

If you’re interested in ordering, just e-mail me and I’ll send you details about how to pay via PayPal or personal check.

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I’m going to be a guest on Creating a Family radio show January 20, 2010.

We’ll spend a full hour discussing how to choose an adoption agency, facilitator, or attorney.

I’d love to respond to your questions about how to choose an agency, as well as to share experiences from those of you who have recently worked with an agency, facilitator, or adoption attorney.

I’m giving away a selection of my books to several random people who suggest questions or share your own experiences (both good and bad experiences, please). Books I’ll be giving away:

Here are some possible questions you might respond to:

  • What were your top 3 factors in choosing an agency, facilitator, or attorney?
  • Was working with a local adoption professional important to you?
  • What differences in adoption fees did you notice as you investigated particular adoption professionals?
  • Did you check references? If so, who did you ask? What did you learn?
  • What red flags would prevent you from working with a particular adoption professional?

Please respond in the Comments area for this post, or e-mail me via the Contact page on laurachristianson.com.

You might win a book… or multiple books… as my thanks for submitting a comment and helping me prepare for this show.

Creating a Family is  a nonprofit providing education, resources, and support for infertility and adoption.

One of the primary services offered by Creating a Family is a weekly one hour national radio show: Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption and Infertility. Half of the shows are about adoption and half about infertility.

Director Dawn Davenport says:

“This show is now both the # 1 rated adoption podcast and infertility podcast on iTunes. We are very proud that the Creating a Family show received awards from both the US Department of Health and Human Services and the Congressional Coalition on Adoption in 2009.”

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This post is reprinted from my business Web site, Blogging Bistro. I don’t normally post non-adoption-related articles, but Christmas is on its way and I know many of you are looking for great gift ideas.

My husband brought home the new Costco cookbook (Home Cooking THE COSTCO WAY) and I’ve been engrossed in it, slapping sticky notes on the recipes I want to try.

I ended up with a cookbook full of sticky notes!

There is an easy solution to my sticky note cookbook-marking obsession. It’s called Recipe RuRecipe Runway logonway, an online service that helps you keep your personal recipe collection organized.

Founder Lori Hastings* knows a thing or two about organizing recipes. She has 3,000 loose recipes and 1,500 cookbooks! Lori invented Recipe Runway to help recipe collectors like her (and me) clean out the clutter and easily find our fave recipes.

Lori says:

With Recipe Runway, I no longer waste an hour searching for my stuffing recipe. Instead, I quickly access it from my personal online Recipe Center. There, I can easily edit it, add a note about where I found it, or type in an anecdote about how Aunt Sue forgot to put the stuffing inside the turkey back in 1996.

I can embellish the recipe with an elegant border, and then print it and give it to everyone at this year’s holiday celebration.

Recipe Runway is the most innovative (and practical) business model I’ve seen in a long while. I love the fact that you can send your handwritten recipe cards (or your mom’s, or grandma’s) to Recipe Runway and they’ll scan them right into your personal online recipe center for you, categorize them (alphabetically and in general cookbook categories), and upload them.

If you prefer, you can type in recipes, or copy and paste them into your Recipe Center, or upload them yourself.

For every recipe in your personal Recipe Center, you can include special stories and memories. For instance, I can note that I got my famous Julekake (Norwegian Christmas bread) recipe from my paternal grandmother, who grew up in Norway.

Not only does a subscription to Recipe Runway make a great gift for the recipe collector in your life, but you can use the service to create extra special gifts. You can create your own virtual cookbooks (using the recipes you’ve uploaded) print them on pretty paper, box them up, gift wrap them, and give them away.

You can also share your recipes via e-mail.

Lori provides three helpful videos that walk you through the system.

You’re probably wondering: How much does it cost?

When Lori told me the price, I almost keeled over in shock–not because it’s expensive, but because it’s so affordable! It’s only $39.99 for a basic 12-month subscription. If you want them to professionally scan in your recipes, they also offer a variety of scanning packages for an additional fee.

If you’re looking for a wonderful, unique gift for a loved one (or for yourself), I highly recommend Recipe Runway. I know you’ll enjoy getting to know Lori – she’s personable, highly professional, and one of the most genuinely nice people you’ll ever meet. When you contact Lori, tell her Laura from Blogging Bistro sent you (no, I don’t get a kickback; I just like to promote great new services).

Here’s an intriguing recipe from Lori for Cabernet Granite Palate Cleanser. When the page loads, click “View Images” (upper lefthand corner) and the recipe will pop up. Here’s what Lori says about the recipe:

This is a fun recipe to serve between the salad and entree course. The first time I served this was at Christmas a few years back. My Grandfather who is no longer with us – thought this was such a fun and interesting recipe to serve. He was so intrigued he took a picture of it and just chuckled. He grew up during the depression so this was truly enjoyable to him. I always think of him when I see or make this recipe. Enjoy!

*Blogging Bistro provided consulting services for Recipe Runway before Lori Hastings launched her business.

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ABC launched new reality show called “Find My Family” Monday. Did you catch it?

I didn’t; I was out. From the previews, it appears to be a tug-your-heartstrings show about people in closed adoptions who are searching for (and finding) their birth parents.

I remember a few years ago when one of the networks tried to launch a similar show called “Who’s Your Daddy?” It lasted all of one episode.

I’d be interested to hear what you think of this new show. I’m happy to see that the hosts, Lisa Joyner and Tim Green, were both adopted. Lisa is also an adoptive mom, and this gives me hope that they will use respectful adoption language and treat the families who guest on the show with sensitivity.

I’m also glad that ABC is assisting adults in closed adoptions to find members of their birth family. Too many people have grieved for years because of the secrecy that surrounds closed adoption. Of course, finding one’s birth relatives opens up a whole new can of worms… but reality TV thrives on drama!

I’m a bit bothered by the show’s title — find my family could be construed as a slam on adoptive parents. Are the people who do the parenting part of the equation in this show? Just curious.

Please share your thoughts if you saw the first episode.

You can view the first full episode.

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Want to do Some Adoption Reading? Try these 12 Books

November 10, 2009 Books, Music & Movies

If you’re itching to learn more about adoption, here’s an informative post that showcases 12 adoption-themed books.
You’ll find fiction, non-fiction, pre- and post-adoption, as well as books for birth parents and adopted people.
WinePress is a Christian publishing company, so I assume all 12 books are written from a Christian worldview.

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Fantastic Ways to Celebrate National Adoption Month

November 6, 2009 Adoption & Infertility Ministry

November is National Adoption Month, and Sunday, November 8 is Orphan Sunday.
Here are links to articles and videos that celebrate adoption:

Orphan Sunday, Live, From Nashville – With Steven Curtis Chapman, Jim Daly and Dennis Rainey. If you missed the live event, you can watch it at GospelMusicChannel.com starting Friday evening, Nov 13, 2009.

Adoption and [...]

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Post-Adoption Support Available

October 12, 2009 Parenting

I often share information for pre-adoptive parents on my Exploring Adoption blog. But post-adoptive families need support, too. It may not feel like it during the adoption process, but the post-adoption period lasts much longer than the pre-adoptive one.
Here are a couple of recommended resources for post-adoptive families.  If you have favorites, be sure to [...]

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Does Working the Night Shift Prevent You From Adopting?

September 24, 2009 Single Parent Adoption

I received this e-mail from a single woman who has started the adoption process:
I work four nights per week and I am off three days. My job is pretty flexible with the nights, and I have a good support system… my mom and a close friend have agreed to care for my child a few [...]

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